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If you are
serving in children's ministry you have most likely read
Transforming Children Into Spiritual Champions by George Barna.
If you haven't, you need to read it ASAP. In his book he talks
about the probability of people accepting Jesus Christ as their
savior for a lifetime relationship. His research puts the
probability at:
32% for children between 5 and 13 years old,
4% for children between 14 and 18, and
6% for people 19 years and older.
In other words, attracting younger children to a church to learn
about the love of God will have 5 to 8 times the impact of
attracting the same number of older children or adults.
His finding is basically
this: if you haven’t accepted Jesus as your Savior by the time
you’re 13, the chances of you ever doing so are very slim.
Similarly, he says your spiritual foundation is in place by age
nine and is unlikely to change after that.
Whether you are a children's
minister, volunteer, or parent it's easy to see that Barna's
research concludes what the Bible has already taught for years!
"Train a child in the way he
should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it."
Proverbs 22:6
If you
are a Christian reading
this, I don’t see how you can ignore these stats. Children
in our church represent the greatest opportunity to win souls
for Christ. I pray that this will encourage you to keep up
the good work and reach kids for Christ!
My favorite quotes from the book
I had been seduced into believing the great myth of modern
ministry: Adults are where the Kingdom action is. (p. 12)
In this book, I will focus upon understanding and affecting the
lives of children in the heart of the youth cohort (i.e.,
children in the 5- to 12-year-old age range). This group, some
31 million strong, represents nearly half of the
under-18-year-olds in the country. That's almost equal to the
population of the entire state of California. Why focus on this
particular slice of the youth market? Because if you want to
shape a person's life--whether you are most concerned about his
or her moral, spiritual, physical, intellectual, emotional or
economic development--it is during these crucial eight years
that lifelong habits, values, beliefs and attitudes are
formed. (p. 18)
A series of studies we conducted regarding the age at which
people accept Christ as their Savior highlights the importance
of having people in Jesus into their heart as their Savior when
they are young. We discovered that the probability of someone
embracing Jesus as his or her Savior was 32 percent for those
between the ages of 5 and 12; and 6 percent for people 19 or
older. In other words, if people do not embrace Jesus Christ as
their Savior before they reach their teenage years, the chance
of their doing so at all is slim. (p. 34)
In other words, by the age of 13, your spiritual identity is
largely set in place. (p. 34)
A large majority of young people believe that they know every
major story and principle on which the Christian faith is based,
and thus they feel secure in their understanding of
Christianity. Consequently, more than 2 out of every 3
13-year-olds argue that they are closed to learning new biblical
insights or correction regarding erroneous perspectives. Second,
we find an astounding level of consistency between the religious
beliefs of adults and children. This has two
implications. Initially, it suggests that whatever beliefs a
person embraces when he or she is young are not likely to change
as the individual ages. (This is a variation on the "first
impressions die hard theory.") (p. 37)
As you ponder how to invest your personal resources of all types
of time, money, experience, ability, facilities, expertise and
so on, keep in mind that there is no better investment than
nurturing our youngsters for an eternal payback. (p. 42) ...this
ones great to get more $$ for your budget!
Having devoted more than two decades of my life and all of my
professional skills to studying and working with ministries of
all types, I am now convinced that the greatest hope for the
local church lies in raising godly children. (p. 49)
Where is the battlefront today? Is it to be found in the fight
for the rights of the unborn or the call to outlaw homosexual
behavior? Does it lie within the struggle to get adults to spend
more than two hours per week at church of the hope of getting
people to read the Bible every day? Will it be found at the
heart of the culture wars, which pit biblical morality against
the garbage imbedded in a lot of the movies, television and
music to which we are exposed? Is the line in the sand drawn to
separate those who selfishly work to accumulate resources for
personal pleasure from those who seek to distribute resources
more equitable? No, I believe the battlefront is found in the
minds, hears and souls of our children. (p. 50)
Various studies have confirmed the results of some of our
data: By the age of nine, most of the moral and spiritual
foundations of a child are in place. From the time a child is
born until he or she is in the early primary grades, the child
is voraciously consuming cues and lessons related to each of the
developmental dimensions. It seems that by the time he or she is
nine; the child shifts mental gears and begins to use the cues
he or she receives from that point forward to either confirm or
challenge an existing perspective. It also appears that by the
time the child has reached this age, it is much more difficult
to change an existing view than to form a new view. (p. 58)
Our national surveys have shown that while more than 4 out of 5
parents (85 percent) believe they have the primary
responsibility for the moral and spiritual development of their
children, more than two out of three of them abdicate that
responsibility to their church. (p. 78)
One of the lessons that wiser parents than I have learned is to
remember that God cares a lot less about what we achieve that
draws applause from the world, how many consecutive profitable
quarters we led the corporation to amass, how clean and
organized we kept our home or how many educational degrees we
piled up than how we raise our children. (p. 89)
Conducting this research proved to be more difficult than
expected for the following reasons: (1)virtually every church
has a children's ministry; (2) families are a crucial segment of
the population base for most churches; and (3) almost every
congregation asserts that ministry to young people is an
important aspect of its mission. However, when we examined what
a church does and how it evaluates the efficacy of its work, we
found that most churches simply go through the motions. (p. 97)
As a personal observation, I believe that if the pastor does not
include the ministry to children as one of the top church
priorities, the chance of that ministry reaching its potential
and having a significant impact on the lives of the church's
children is severely reduced. (p. 105)
There is no perceived value to using shortcuts or saving money
when investing in the spiritual development of their
children. (p. 116)
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